What am i going to do?

Ive been going out with a guy for the last four years, but we broke up 2 months ago, because i fell for his friend because my ex and i were going through a ruff patch at the time so i broke up with him because i didnt want to be sneaking around and i felt really bad.after we broke up i met up with his friend all the time while this was happening me ex still didnt no and only thought we broke up beacause things werent working out, 2 weeks later my ex found out and flipped i felt horrible he didint talk to me for awile but now his back talking to me and told me he still loved me and missed me and i feel the same.im so confused now because his friend wants a relationship with me and told me he loved me, and i dont no what to do beacuse his friend has shown me a life that ive never seen with my ex and his really nice and he is going somewhere in life and he has a job, where as my ex wasnt and he doesnt have a job but i still love him and want to be with him but if i get back with him my family will go mad because they have never liked him a beacuse he is doing nothing with his life but i hate it because they havent given him the chance for him to show them what type of guy he really is only i no the real him.on the otherside all my family like the new guy and so do i but im still in love with my ex and i cant stop thinking about him:( plzzz help me....